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who is Ria

'Balancing a life dedicated to training 1000 therapists, giving worldwide teachings and seminars and establishing a foundation after a heart wrenching trip to some of Africas poorest regions, Ria panen Godesberg's life is a full expression of the love that is at the very core of her being.

Being with Ria is experiencing this all encompassing love. The expression of this love has the potential to be the next great evolutionary shift for the human race, based on the individuality that as a race we have struggled so hard to achieve, and guide us through the vast challenges that we are already facing as human beings.

Ria wants to awaken this love in all human beings and it is through this love that a capacity is created for profound intimacy between the men and women, who are standing in their deepest selves. To experience this love is to be transformed, and for this transformation to be established we have to live it.

In order to change on a deep level we have to see where we are now and what we are expressing and doing. Ria's function as a teacher is to act as a mirror and to show us exactly where we are now, and the love that is possible in our lives.

To establish this love in our lives is a lifelong daily practice of presence.

Ria will show how to see and go beyond our conditioning, fixed ideas, concepts and opinions; and will show us how to physically and volitionally shift our consciousness from our minds to our hearts and open the door to true transformation and the compelling and vital meaning and purpose of our lives.'

11 Apr 2008

What is Spiritual Sexuality?

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When I talk about spiritual sexuality, I am not talking about anything phoney; nor am I talking about some kind of platonic sex life without touching. I’m speaking about something that is much, much more than that, something that must not be taken lightly or just be used as a means to increase ones own pleasure.

When Do We Practise Spiritual Sexuality?

Spiritual sexuality is practised while being engaged in the sexual act of lovemaking.

What Do I Need To Know About Spiritual Sexuality?

There are very many aspects to spiritual sexuality.

The most important thing that I would like to emphasize is that it is of utmost importance to work on your personality; to actually put into practice everything you can find on this website; to become an expert in making your partner happy while at the same time being aware of the need of your service to the world.

When you have achieved everything I have mentioned above and have deeply involved yourself in this service, then you are ready to receive teachings of spiritual sexuality.

Sexual Energy is an enormous power. It is very constructive when well used and very destructive when used unconsciously or abusively.

For that reason you may understand that, when we combine spiritual power with sexual energy, we can cause miracles to occur and when used by the wrong person in the wrong way, the force can be devastating. This is the reason that on this page you will not find anything to learn as far as spiritual sexuality is concerned, for I will only teach these practices in a live situation, where I can see the energy of the people.

Spiritual Sexuality Seminars

So if you are interested please send me an email and I will let you know when and where there is a seminar on this theme taking place. Don’t forget to mention where you live, for doing a live seminar in the U.K. when you are actually living in the U.S.A. and the other way around, may be a bit of a hassle! Or book me if you happen to have a group of people who would really like to do this seminar. My email adress is sasenyin@hotmail.com

More heads that you may find helpful:

Building a Healthy Relationship
Relationship Advice for Men
Relationship Advice for Women
Relationship Test
Relationship Tips

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about Ria Panen Godesberg

about Ria Panen Godesberg

Ria Panen Godesberg is a spiritual master.

The essence of her work is to help people find their way to a profound state of love, consciousness and self-reliance.

Those who seek her guidance are able to heal their inner selves and thus be of service to others.

Much of Ria’s knowledge is self-realized and throughout her life she has been highly trained in different areas.
From birth to the present she has been on an upward trajectory that has taken her to many parts of the world where she has been a force that has helped to bring about change in the lives of individuals as well as raising their consciousness to include others and the planet.
Ria was born with clairvoyant abilities and began practicing yoga and meditation at a very youngage. From 1972 to 1980 she studied and practiced anthrosophical heilpaedagogy and anthroposofical medicine (methods introduced by Rudolf Steiner) as well as oriental massage techniques.
In 1980 she moved to Ibiza, Spain where she currently resides with her husband Helmut and their Icelandic horses. Ria has two adult daughters. For a year she moved to the Canary Islands where she created a base for Greenpeace using her own means in which to fund the project.

Ria is the founder and creator of the Sa‘Sen Yin therapy method. In 1987 she created two integral parts of this method: Reintegration Massage and Etheric Osteopathy.
She continues to practice this method herself as well as training new therapists around the world.
In 1989 she began studying and practicing Chi Kung and T’ai Chi Chuan. She has been teaching these two martial arts since 1991. She has studied geotherapy (healing art of clay) and fitotherapy (healing with herbs) and uses this knowledge in her work.
Over the last 10 years she has used her knowledge and experience to help restructure several businesses.
In 1992 Ria created what is known "only" as ‘The Course’. This is a course she gives by invitation only and is the vehicle that she has created to help others evolve to a higher state of consciousness. Ria considers this to be the most important part of her work and is very interested in finding more people who are qualified to take The Course.
AND Ria not only works with people she also works with animals, especially horses!
She is currently in the process of launching a group of websites to help to bring her work to the world. The site you are on now is the first.
Ria is available for lectures, 1-3 day seminars, and private and group sessions. For more information please send us an email explaining your interest and we will get right back to you promptly.

Ria and Helmut while learning snowboarding

At Ria's birthday, a fancy dress party, with her husband Helmut

Birthdays are to get honoured if it is one's own, or to honour the person one loves. Sometimes it is just wonderful to do something different, for example to set a theme to the day as here in 2008 the party guests were requested to wear an oriental touch. The result was that they were more authentic than ever because of their fancy dress. And some really had a lot of fantasy, so there was an Indian lady, an Indonesian witch, a chinese princess and all kinds of varieties from the east. It created new connections between the same people, which made the party extra lovely.

Relationship Tips

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To give tips for a relationship is very easy, at least for me. Why? Because I have a long, loving and healthy relationship in which I have been through heaven and hell.

Relationship Tip #1

Both of us are now aware that a relationship can only be healthy when both partners work on the relationship. So my first tip is that you both need to be actively interested in building on your relationship to keep it healthy, every day of your lives!

Relationship Tip #2

We are very aware that we are two different people. We have a lot in common, but we also have very different needs. So we have learned to let the other person be free. And that brings me to my next tip. Set your partner free; don’t be possessive, and be free yourself!
This will bring trust into your relationship and at the same time creates the need for more trust; otherwise you will want to control your partner. So trust and be trustworthy!

Relationship Tip #3

Setting your partner free is one thing. Doing what one needs oneself is another. It is very important to learn to respect what is important for yourself. Because without self-respect, you are not going to ask for what you need. Without this self-respect you will start to resent, and this resentment will come down on your partner. So, respecting yourself with all your needs and wants is Tip #3.

Resentment is actually a form of disrespect. The respecting of your partner, which will definitely improve your relationship, is as vital for you as for him/her. Why? Because when your partner feels respected by you, he/she will treat you right and trust because he/she will want to give you back exactly that what you need. So: Respect your partner!

Relationship Tip #4

I already said that two partners are two different people. So they have different interests. Even if the interests of your partner are totally dissimilar from yours, show curiosity, ask questions, listen, for there is always something to learn and it binds you together, it expresses mutual respect.

Relationship Tip #5

We are both people with strong personalities. Because of the work I do and the places I do it, I travel a lot. I speak many languages and meet many, many people. Yet, I will never forget how important my husband is to me. I will never pass over him. He therefore will never try to be the protagonist in my work environment. He knows I love him and that he is of vital importance to me. So the next tip is: Show your partner you care. Show them that you really find her/him to be of primary significance.

Relationship Tip #6

We live in a country where it is normal for people, as soon as they close their front door and are within their family, to change clothes and become really sloppy. After five years they don’t notice the other partner any more, after ten years they commit adultery. Maybe I exaggerate, maybe not! Yet I do know that I find it pleasant to be around people who look after themselves. So my next tip is: Stay attractive for your partner; and this counts for women as well as men!!

Relationship Tip #7

Communicate and Listen! For more details on this tip please read my Communication in Relationship post.

So now you have quite a few tips to help you consciously keep or make your relationship work so it will be a healthy, loving relationship. There are many other ‘tips’ given in the other pages of this site and rest assured there will be more to follow!

So roll up your sleeves and get to work!!!

Some posts that may be of help:

How to Improve Your Relationship
Love and Trust
Sexual Relationship Advice
Communication in Relationship

FREE Relationship Test

This relationship test is to help you to see where you are in your relationship and which areas it would be good for you to further investigate so as to improve it.

At the bottom of the page you will find the point score for each question. Only choose one answer to get a clear outcome.

You have a partner with whom you are in a relationship.

1. Who is the one who makes the major decisions?
a. I do
b. We both do together
c. My partner does
d. Some I do, some my partner does

2. Who takes the smaller decisions in your relationship?
a. I do
b. We both do
c. My partner does
d. Some I do, some my partner does

3. Are you living together? If not why?
a. I like to live by myself
b. My partner prefers to live alone
c. We both like to live aloned. Because of circumstances beyond our control

4. If you are living together - The place you live in was:
a. Your choice
b. Your partner’s choice
c. Found and approved of by both of you
d. An intermediate place until we find the right place

5. Is it important for you to hear from your partner that he/she loves you?
a. Yes, I need that all the time
b. Yes, but once a day is enough
c. No, I can do without sticky expressions
6. Do you have a satisfying love/sex life?
a. Yes, I feel totally fulfilled
b. Yes, yet I feel it could improve
c. No, I feel very neglected/not understood

7. How many times do you make love together?
a. 1-3 times a week
b. More than 3 times a week
c. Less than once a week

8. This question is about communication between partners
a. I tell my partner everything; we share everything with each other
b. There are things my partner finds uninteresting so I don’t speak about them
c. I share more with my best friend than with my partner

9. Your partner has hobbies that you don’t like
a. I am still interested when my partner wants to talk about them
b. I pretend I am interested but am glad when we can get to something else
c. I am not interested and let my partner know this

10. Do you believe in deep, unconditional love in partnership?
a. Yes
b. No
c. I hope it exists

Points for Each Question:

Question 1
1a 1
1b 2
1c 1
1d 3

Question 2
2a 1
2b 2
2c 1
2d 3

Question 3
3a 1
3b 1
3c 1
3d 2

Question 4
4a 1
4b 1
4c 3
4d 3

Question 5
5a 1
5b 3
5c 1

Question 6
6a 3
6b 2
6c 1

Question 7
7a 3
7b 2
7c 1

Question 8
8a 3
8b 2
8c 1

Question 9
9a 2
9b 2
9c 1

Question 10
10a 3
10b 1
10c 2

Check Your Results;

You have 10 points as a total outcome
I would urgently advise you to explore my website: www.loving-relationships-marriage-advice.blogspot.com as you definitely need help with building your relationship. You will make the same mistakes again and again in every relationship you get involved in and will have a difficult time in becoming a happy person. Maybe you haven’t discovered yet what a healthy relationship is and how it looks?

10-19 points
You are in a relationship that needs improving. You are willing to work on this but could use some good advice. Have a look at these pages: Building A Healthy Relationship And How To Improve Your Relationship so as to get an idea of where to start to become more fulfilled in your relationship both in yourself and with your partner.

20-26 points
You are doing quite well and are probably inventive and creative in your relationship with your partner. Yet it could be helpful to use the www.loving-relationships-marriage-advice.blogspot.com website as inspiration for your future development. And don’t forget, you need to work on your relationship till the end of time!

27 points or more
Congratulations, you and your partner are probably very happy people in a very happy and healthy relationship.

I’d like to invite you to share your experience of partnership with people that come to my website. So if you would like to do this, please write to websiteria@hotmail.de

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11 Apr 2008

What is Spiritual Sexuality?

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